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When should you personalize your message?
When should you personalize? 🥶

Me confused af not knowing when to personalize an email
In a perfect world, I think we can all agree, we would love to send a wholesome, witty, personalized message to every single prospect on our list.
But we don’t live in a perfect world, otherwise, I’d stop losing hair over the stress that comes from running a business and selling all the time.
*breathing in*
Okay! so now that we’ve established we don’t live in a perfect world, when on earth should you and I be sending a personalized message?
Why should we bother?
Who should we send it to?
How do we write one?
So many questions, but I ( think) I have all the answers for you, grab my virtual hand 🤝 and let’s take a cold plunge together and find out!
Chapter 1: The cons

First of all, let’s address all the cons behind writing a personalized message:
Takes a lot of time
Takes a lot of time
Takes a lot of time
We get it, it takes time to put something together that is worth someone’s time…
But that’s not a “con” that’s just you being
Lazy AF
Rome wasn’t built in a day.
Take that idea out of your head that anything that takes long is bad.
Flip that script upside down, just gave you guys sales and life advice.
For free.
I should really start charging you for this…
Chapter 2: The pros

As of today, 06/07/23 ( that’s right, I’m writing this a bit last minute), everyone and their college dropout cousin who could not get any job but in sales, is sending an AI-written email.
They all look the same.
They all sound the same.
They all get deleted the same.
Writing a personalized email will get you the following perks:
Higher response rate
You’ll have more fun at your job
You get to tap into your creative juices
You get to leave a great first impression
You get to develop great relationships
You win in the long term
Imagine NOT wanting to have those perks?

/hori
Chapter 3: How and when?

My philosophy behind personalization is simple:
Use it when it counts the most
What I mean by that is, I am very well aware that personalizing an outreach can take a lot of time, so I prefer to spend that time on an account/prospect that I would consider my dream outcome.
The criteria I look at are:
The prospect works at a company I really like
I really like/admire the prospect
There is a potential for a massive deal that could change my life
It’s really that simple.
Now as for HOW to do it.
There are two things to consider:
You need to find personal information on the prospect
You need to present that information in a unique way
For #1, that all depends on how much the prospect has shared online, so sometimes you can’t personalize an outreach due to the lack of data ( and that’s fine, move on to the next one).
The framework I use when trying to find the data is this:
The more layers I go through to find [x], the better the email
If the data I am using to personalize my outreach is on their Linkedin profile, then I would give it a 4/10.
It’s better than nothing, but it’s still “meh”.
If the data used is found from a post on LinkedIn that was shared months ago, then I would give it a 7/10.
It shows you dug deeper into the prospect.
If the data used is found OUTSIDE of Linkedin, ideally from a source that required you to click on multiple links to get to, then I would give it a 9/10.
It shows you went above and beyond to research your prospect.
That is precisely what I did to get the response I shared with y’all earlier this week.
For #2 (You need to present that information in a unique way ) then I would recommend you play to your strengths.
I like sending videos, making jokes, etc..
If that’s not you, that’s fine, just find what you’re naturally good at and double down on it.
Takeaways

Rome wasn’t built in a day, good things take time.
Personalization does work, on a smaller scale.
Triggers to send a personalized message: You either like the person, like the company, or the deal could be life-changing
The deeper you dig for that data, the better the email